I looked inside myself

I looked inside myself was created by UK poet Steve Taylor. I have followed Steve as a poet for many, many years and found he has a gently sharp edge to his perspective on the world. I like this poem. Whenever I spend time with someone and have the chance to see into their inner world, their soul and feelings and experience, I find myself in a sacred place. That experience can be nourishing, distressing, guiding, calming. It always enrciches my experience of the world. It is the same when I spend time with someone who I let enter my inner world.

Anxiety

We don’t seem to enjoy anxiety very much but it does seem to be part of what it is to be human. I think there is also some debate about whether we should overcome it, get rid of it or learn to live with it. This article looks at anxiety through an existential lens and is based on a panel discussion with Emmy Van Deurzen, Kirk Schneider and Alfred Längle. These three people have been trained in Existential philosophy and therapy yet even they differ in their thoughts about what anxiety is and what we do with it.

Advice - how not to give it

You know when you tell someone a dilemma you have or a problem you’re trying to solve or a relationship that you’re finding irritating or difficult and the person you’re talking to goes into problem solving… “You should…” “Have you tried…?” “

My inner sociopath

The inner critic. That sociopath within that has been able to thrive in the absence of kindness and understanding and even explanation… Well.... I have been calming this frightened childish sociopath with self-compassion.

Picture by ‘R’ and friends (‘02?) as part of a series “The Skippy Girls” in Redfern, Sydney. Loved and restored by many on Gadigal land. JP (‘07)

Inner health

One of the wonders of the human psyche is that our feelings don’t give up. They find ways to be heard. Tiredness, nausea, a general sense of anxiety, or depression. Even illness. Or addictions. Listening to our feelings is key to sustained, good mental health.